With so many swingers websites online these days it's not easy finding one that you want to try, if you believe the hype on most sites everyone will offer you the biggest range of members, more features than you can shake a stick at and discounts and offers that would make any high street window look bland.
So how do you choose a swingers website, then once you have found one what's the best way to use it and hopefully get lots of members contacting you, after all you may be a stunner but if you don't put the effort in no one will ever see your profile.
One of the best ways I've found when considering membership type sites really, no matter what type they are, is to join up for FREE! Yes that's right free, and if they don't offer a free or trial membership move onto another, as every one I've looked at does. Then depending on the level of free access, it will at least give you some idea what you'll get, and even some will allow you to post profiles and contact other members. But it is really the profile that'd I'd like to touch briefly on.
One of the mistakes often made by new members is rushing to get a profile up with little or no thought or planning put into it and then often within the chatrooms members will ask "why is no one clicking on my profile?" but when you then look at their profile it has no photos, poor headings and just a couple of lines for the description!
So to address those 3 points here's some basic tips:
- Photos - a profile with no photos is going to get a poor response!, Why? Because members will wonder why you've not added any - maybe you're not serious, maybe when you say slim female you're really a fat guy! Trust me it happens. So by posting at least one photo it will show members what you look like and that you're genuine about finding contacts. If you don't want your face to be shown edit the photo using oneof the free tools you can get online, or if you can't find one just post a photo from the neck down, either way least your putting something up.
- Headings - after your photo, the heading you give to your profile is the next thing people will look at when searching for members, so if you have a dull and uninteresting heading/title line people are not going to click it, so think about what you saying
- Descriptions - this is your chance to tell other swingers what you are like, what you are looking for, what your turn ons or indeed offs are!! So by just putting a couple of lines of waffle really isn't going to tell people very much! You don't have to write a book but you have unlimited space so use it to sell youself!
If you follow those basic tips you'll soon be finding contacts no matter what type, maybe couples or bbw swingers, single guys or tranny personals it's really a case of selling yourself then sitting back and enjoying the site, chatting to others in the chatrooms, blogs & forums, but at least you won't be thinking "why am I not getting replies"
